Fit in a Fun Friday – Poker Night


When my husband and I were in college, we started a poker club. As the President, I found locations to play and organized tournaments. As the Treasurer (irony kicks booty), my husband used the dues to buy refreshments and supplies like decks of cards and poker chips. The tournaments were tons of fun and legal too since gift cards were used as prizes.

That was a ton of fun. Then we graduated, everybody moved away, and poker night faded into the past.

After a few years, we were able to revive the tradition. I called a few friends we knew who enjoyed Texas Hold ‘Em and set up our poker table in the dining room. We still had our own chips and cards from college (not the club sets), so getting ready was easy. We also supplied a few bags of chips and soda, so we were good to go.

We played nickel poker with a max bet of a quarter and 3 raises, so our pots were limited and allowed for a lot of playing time in an evening. Everybody would buy-in for $5 and re-buy once or twice max. We usually started with Texas Hold ‘Em and moved on to general stuff (dealer would name a game). Everybody had lots of fun with a minimal amount of financial pain.

If you might be interested in having your own poker night, here’s a little list of what I’d get together:

1.  Cards ($1-$3) - Make sure they aren’t marked or too worn.  No, your friends will probably not try to cheat, but it’s hard to pretend you don’t see a grease stain on an ace…

2.  Poker chips ($10 for a good set on Ebay) - It is way easier than making sure everybody has a good mix of change.

3.  Stable table – I was cleaning sticky poker chips for an hour because I didn’t follow this advice.

4.  Group of 6 or less – It’s easier to talk and have fun if everybody doesn’t spread out.

5.  Potluck snacks – If everybody pitches in, it ends up costing less than $5 a person for food.

That’s it!  After the initial card and chip investment, we spend $5 – $15 a night for the both of us (food and cruddy hands) and every once in a while, we actually get paid to play.  icon smile Fit in a Fun Friday   Poker Night

What do you think?  Have you had poker nights?  How did they turn out?

BFS is in Carnival Of Money Stories #46!

BFS is in Carnival of Money Stories #46!  You can check out my article, What Would We Do if We Lose a Job, and the other winners at M is for Money.  Woot again!

From here on out, I’ll be combining the blog carnival “wins” as an end-of-week post since they seem to alert me at different times, but hey, that’s a good problem to have!

How We Chose to Buy a House

After coming across yet another blog about renting versus buying, I decided to explain how we chose to buy a house.

First of all, I was extremely frustrated that our rent was increased by 5-10% at the end of every lease. We were clean, quiet, and paid early every month. I was always able to cut down on the increase, but I could never stop it completely.

Secondly, having to ask permission to change absolutely everything meant we never changed anything at all. Our apartments didn’t feel like homes…they felt like temporary bases. We did everything that we do now in a house, but now I’m surrounded by the colors we picked out and art we made and that we finally allowed ourselves to buy since we felt stable.

The Numbers Were in Our Favor to Buy A House

Thirdly, the financial numbers worked in our favor in our area. No, it isn’t wise to buy a house that you cannot easily afford. That means that we would probably never allow ourselves to buy a house if we lived in the high cost areas along the coasts. Luckily, Houston has inexpensive homes in good locations. After looking around for a couple of months, we found our house – the perfect starter home for us. This is how the numbers looked:

Rent was costing us $8760 a year and was increasing 5-10% a year.

Our home was going to cost us $24,000 up front (20% down and closing costs) and cost an additional $15,000 a year including taxes, insurance, and maintenance for 11 years. After the end of 2017, we’d only need about $4500 a year for taxes, insurance, and maintenance, and we were budgeting for that to increase 3% each year (our taxes have actually decreased since 2007, but these are the numbers we used).

That meant that with a 5% increase every year on rent and a 3% increase every year on property taxes, we would be breaking even with home ownership in less than 20 years plus we would own a home outright in about 11 years. In less than 20 years of renting, we would have paid just as much and have no physical thing to show for it. That alone would have convinced me to buy a house in our area.

Lastly, by putting 20% down on a foreclosure that was already heavily discounted since it was on the market for more than a year, we had instant equity. This didn’t effect our decision much, but it was nice to know that we could have taken out a home equity loan if necessary. I like having lots of options when it comes to finances.

Over the past 3 years, our taxes have decreased but our equity has increased. We are still on track to pay off the mortgage by the end of 2017…maybe earlier if I get my way. We had a very cheap first year of home ownership.  We’ve spent less than $300 a year on home maintenance since it was built very well and barely lived in at all before we snatched it up. To be honest, we have spent almost $3000 on new floors downstairs and paint, but that was a choice and makes us very happy.

No, home ownership is not for everybody. It’s not even a good financial choice in many areas. I also know that I don’t enjoy having to fix my own problems. Yet, I wouldn’t change a thing.

How about you?  Why did you or will you buy a house?  Do you enjoy renting instead?

BFS is in Money Hackers Blog Carnival #109

BFS is in Money Hackers Blog Carnival #109!  You can check out my article, Ready for Retirement? Lots of People Aren’t, and the other winners at MaximizingMoney.com.  Woot!

Balancing Your Budget with Online Tools

The following is a guest post by Kevin Fleming. Kevin runs CreditShout, a personal finance blog dedicated to educating people on how to manage their finances and reviewing cash back credit cards.

Tracking finances, budgeting funds, and paying bills is one of the most important jobs you have. With one lost bill or skipped payment, your credit rating can suffer inordinately, so properly budgeting your finances is absolutely essential.

Many people shrink away from financial planning because it seems difficult—and face it, no one really likes the idea of spending hours working out a budget in a ledger book, surrounded by receipts from transactions you can’t even remember.

The solution to the issue may be a free online program, which allows you to monitor your debt, manage your credit cards, and track your spending habits over time. Here are some of the best budgeting tools you’ll find on the internet and how they can help you take care of your finances week by week.

Mvelopes – Mvelopes is an intuitive and award-winning online money managing envelope, and it comes with a free trial. While some online solutions are difficult to use and understand, Mvelopes uses the old-fashioned “envelope” method of saving and budgeting out your money. Most of the payments that you need to make—including payments to credit card debts—can be made automatically through the program as well, resulting in less work on your part to manage your finances. The feature can also help you avoid accidentally making late payments to your credit cards, which could trigger a late charge and a ding on your credit score. Mvelopes can help you use your credit cards wisely in a lot of ways. It even has a credit card spending tracker that sets money from your other spending envelopes aside, allowing you to pay off credit purchases in full every month. Remember, Mvelopes is only free for a limited trial, so if you plan not to continue using it, cancel your membership.

Wesabe – Wesabe has been online longer than many other online budget tools, and still touts itself as the best money management tool and financial issues community online. In fact, Wesabe is particularly attractive, as it touts a user-friendly interface and interactive forums that allow you to get finance tips from people just like you. You can add your credit union, credit cards, and bank accounts to Wesabe for easier money management, and you can tag and track your credit card purchases, along with your other spending, to see where your money is going Wesabe also allows you to check your credit card balances from multiple cards all in one place, facilitating debt repayment.

YNAB – Just like everyone else, you need a budget. YNAB (“You Need a Budget”) is a fantastic tool that uses four unique steps to help you take control of your earnings. It helps you to stop living from one paycheck to the next, to save money for a “rainy day,” and to adjust according to your under- and overspending. You can tailor repayment plans to target and eliminate your credit card debt right within the budgeting tool. The software also contains functions to track credit card payments, calculate debt payoff, and transfer money between accounts. While a one-time purchase of the software costs about $60, you can try it out for free for seven days and decide if you actually like it.

Mint – Like Wesabe, Mint has been a leading money management tool available free to online users since the mid-2000s. It has become so popular that it eclipsed, and ultimately took over, the Quicken budget tool many had become accustomed to using. Mint is extremely easy to use thanks to pages that are short on text and heavy on graphics, allowing for simple debt repayment to get you back to financial stability. If you’re interested in changing credit card companies, tracking credit card interest, comparing your spending habits with others in a similar financial situation, or getting to the bottom of your spending habits, Mint is probably the right tool for you. Best of all, Mint is completely free for users.

Using Online Budgeting Tools

The best way to use these online budgeting tools is to set up a budget and stick to it. Ideally, your budget should involve making aggressive debt payments to get out of credit card debt. While credit cards can be a great tool to earn rewards for spending (with the exception of some horrible store rewards cards like the best buy credit card ), the interest you pay can end up costing you hundreds- if not thousands- of dollars over the course of a year and quickly drain your pocket book.

Set up a plan to get out of debt and use the online budgeting tool of your choice to make that dream a reality. Once you’ve paid off that last debt payment, make a commitment to use your budget in order to pay off your cards in full each month. Track your credit card spending so you can find problem areas and always make sure you have the cash on hand to pay off your bill in full each month when the credit card statement arrives.

BFS has a Guest Post about ING at Bankshout.com

Kevin at bankshout.com was kind enough to let me guest post today with ING Direct is my Budgeting Buddy.  His site has a bunch of great bank reviews and suggestions.  Take a look when you can, thanks!

A Closer Look at Social Security

As I’ve commented elsewhere, I do not include social security in our retirement plan in case it won’t be around for us in 40 years. That is not to say that I’m okay with being robbed my whole life, but I like to plan conservatively.

Keeping that in mind, I was intrigued when one of my regular readers, MikeS (thanks again), sent me a blog suggestion to look into social security – specifically the survivor benefits and disability. I never really thought of those aspects, so here we go…

From what I found at the Social Security site, if you have worked and contributed to Social Security for at least 10 years, the following people may be eligible to receive your survivor benefits:

  • A widow or widower — full benefits at full retirement age, or reduced benefits as early as age 60
  • A disabled widow or widower — as early as age 50
  • A widow or widower at any age if he or she takes care of the deceased’s child who is under age 16 or disabled, and receiving Social Security benefits
  • Unmarried children under 18, or up to age 19 if they are attending high school full time. Under certain circumstances, benefits can be paid to stepchildren, grandchildren, or adopted children.
  • Children at any age who were disabled before age 22 and remain disabled.
  • Dependent parents age 62 or older

I also found that you are eligible for disability if you have paid into Social Security for a certain number of years, become disabled, and are unable to work for a year or more because of that disability. Those payments will continue until you are able to work again. Here’s how they determine if you qualify:

You earn a single credit for making $1120 or more every quarter of the year that is subject to Social Security taxes. This means that you can earn a maximum of four credits a year by making at least $1120 every three months. Here’s the table that shows how many credits you need to have accumulated in order to qualify based on age.

Your spouse, divorced spouse, and children may also qualify to receive up to 50% of your disability payments if they meet some strict criteria (you can look at this page and click on which person you want to check).

My Thoughts:

As most things that were set up with red tape, the benefits seem to be confusing enough to make me hope I never have to use them at all. You can use their benefit calculators to help you figure out exact amounts, but my eyes glazed over 20 minutes into my research. That usually doesn’t happen to me when it comes to money, but this system is inherently confusing.

Quick survivor benefits summary:  Your spouse and dependents might be eligible to receive your Social Security benefits if you contributed for at least 10 years.

Quick disability summary:  If you have contributed to Social Security for the amount of quarters (credits) they deem proper, you may or may not be approved when you become disabled to receive less than half of what you make now.

My very quick judgment:  Social Security research has left me with a slight headache and a need for chocolate.

I hope I don’t become disabled without private insurance (which I have) or I might have to jump through hoops and be denied cruddy coverage anyway. I also hope I don’t die until my husband is well taken care of financially since those benefits seem hinky too.

Do you have private disability insurance in case you aren’t eligible for Social Security disability? I’d look into it if you don’t…