My College Savings Plan, Look out for #1

The following is a guest post from Sandy L over at First Gen American.  I personally really enjoy the emotion she puts into her writing, so I highly suggest checking out her blog when you get a chance!

Today I’d like to offer an alternative point of view on how people prioritize their savings goals. You see, when I read about most people’s plans, they look something like this:

  1. Pay off Consumer Debt
  2. Build an Emergency Fund
  3. Pay off Student Loans
  4. Save for Kid’s Education
  5. Save for Retirement
  6. Pay off House

I mean even Dave Ramsey says you should save for your kid’s education before you pay off your house, so what gives? Although it is logical to organize your savings goals in chronological order, I hope to convince a few people to move #4 down to the bottom of the list.

My first bit of advice if you have children of any age, is to learn about FAFSA. This is the federal financial aid form. Its purpose is to calculate out a person’s eligibility to receive need based financial aid.

The FINAID site goes into all the nitty gritty details on income limits, scholarships, ownership rules, etc. The two things that everyone should be aware of before saving a dime for college is whose name to put the asset in and what the federal government considers an eligible asset or liability. I won’t touch on all of them in this post but there are 4 big ones that I think everyone should be aware of:

  • 401K and IRA plans – are not considered eligible assets in your need based calculation. (The exceptions are the contributions that occur during the year of the FAFSA application). The good news is the federal government doesn’t expect your 70 year old arthritic self to eat cat food in order to pay for junior’s education today.
  • Your Primary Residence - is not considered an eligible asset...even if it’s 100% paid for. Again, Uncle Sam doesn’t want you to go homeless to pay for Jr’s education.
  • Your consumer Debts – are not considered eligible liabilities. So if you make $100K/year, but have thousands a month in credit card payments and car loans, the federal government doesn’t count those as eligible liabilities. Your income on the other hand does count. Uncle Sam isn’t going to reward you for being a dumb a$$.
  • Certain Durable Goods – like cars, computers, etc are not considered eligible assets.

So what’s my current plan for my kid’s education (ages 1 and 5)? Well, they do both have 529 plans, but they usually only get contributed to during birthday or Xmas time when family members throw them a few bucks. I do plan on eventually contributing, but not until after I max out our retirement plans and pay off our mortgage.

Oh, I guess I do one other thing. Our emergency fund is in savings bonds in our name (better than if in Jr’s name). If we’re lucky enough not to have to tap that til college time, we can cash those in tax free come tuition time.

What’s your plan? Has your mind been changed at all?

Small Loss Turns into a Little Boost

If you would like to know how and why I started blogging, feel free to check out my Member Post over at Yakezie today.  icon smile Small Loss Turns into a Little Boost

I signed up for Smoothie King junk mail so I could get a free smoothie.  This sort of thing usually works out for me and gives me a little smile for “gaming” the marketing community.  Every once in a while though, I get gamed.  Smoothie King got me.

A few days after signing up to be on their email list (using my junk email address of course), I received my expected coupon for “One Free Smoothie”.  I printed it and stuck it in my bag for future yumminess.  Last Friday seemed perfect since it was 97 degrees outside and I was still hungry after eating the one-slice bologna sandwich I had brought.

So I drove to Smoothie King, located the Stawberry Xtreme on their menu, and ordered thinking this will work out great.  Then I read the coupon again.  There, in small print right under the “One Free 20 oz Smoothie”, were the words “with a purchase of another smoothie at equal or greater value”.  Damn.  I hadn’t seen that.

My smoothie had already been started and there was no way I was leaving without it, so I simply decided to order two.  $4.64 later have two 20 oz. smoothies.

I am totally not drinking two smoothies.

I first wished Mr. BFS was around but he was across town.  Then I thought that I could give it away at work, but it was 2pm and everybody had already eaten.  Finally it hits me, I’ll just give it away.

Did you know how hard it is to find someone who wants a smoothie from a stranger?

I asked 4 people before a lady happily took it and thanked me.  By the way, if the nice burnette who took it is reading this, thank you.

Her smile made the whole situation way more bearable.  Instead of being grumpy about my $5 smoothie, I feel happy with my $2.50 donation to a random stranger.  The only thing that might have been better is if she was homeless and really needed a smoothie, but I’m sure she wouldn’t agree.  icon wink Small Loss Turns into a Little Boost

So, yes, a small financial “loss” can become a little ego boost with just a tiny bit of out-of-the-box thinking.  I’ve given away food before, but usually that was planned.  I feel a little proud of myself with simply acknowledging that even random strangers may appreciate whatever you may have to give, smoothies and all.

Has anything like this happened to you?  Does anyone else think $5 for a 20 oz drink I can make at home is stupidly expensive?  Would you have accepted a strawberry smoothie from a random stranger (I would but that’s why people call me naive…)?

Yakezie Alexa Ranking Update – 68,904!

BFS is a member of the Yakezie Alexa Ranking Challenge! My ranking last week was 71,849 and is now 68,904!!! 

The original goal was to be in the top 200,000 by July 4, 2010 and you helped me blow that out of the water in 2 months…a whole month early! Then we were shooting for 100,000 by July 4th and we hit that goal too!!!  After that we started a new goal of 75,000 by the end of August, and I thought there was no way, but we hit that out of the park by August 15!!!

Last week I mentioned shooting for 50,000 by the end of the year, but I want to up the ante.  I’m officially setting our new target – 50,000 by Halloween!  That’s right.  I know it may be impossible, but why not aim high!  Can you please help BFS reach a 50,000 Alexa ranking by October 31, 2010?

As always, I would like to sincerely thank all of my readers and the members of the Yakezie Challenge. Obviously, this would have been impossible without all of you. Thank you all so much!  I repeat those words every week, but please understand that I mean it every time.

In case you didn’t know, Alexa traffic rankings are determined by the numbers of hits a site gets by people with the Alexa toolbar. If you want to be part of this ranking community, you can download the Alexa toolbar here. icon smile Yakezie Alexa Ranking Update   68,904!

If you are a Yakezie member and don’t see yourself on my member list, please send me an email or leave a comment here to be added. I copied the list originally in early March and updated it in mid-June. Please let me know if you are still missing. Thanks!

Weekly Favorites and Gratitude!

My Favorite Posts this Week

Guest Posts on BFS

Thanks for the day off and the work you put into that post!

Blog Carnivals that Featured BFS

Thanks for putting your time into these carnivals!  I truly appreciate being included!

Carnival hosts, please email me if BFS is in a carnival you are hosting so I can be sure to add it to the list. Thanks!

Other Info

Feel free to email me if you have any suggestions. I’d love to add a few more blogs to my regular reading list or at least give a shout-out for great posts or contests.

Fellow bloggers, if you would like a guest post from BFS, please shoot me an email. I usually have a couple of weeks of posts ready in advance so I could probably help out.

As always, thanks to all the bloggers that teach me something new every day. Thanks to all my commenters for making this blog the community I want it to be. Thanks to all my lurkers too. I hope everybody is enjoying this as much as I am!

Fit in a Fun Friday – Baking

I love baked desserts.  Cakes, muffins, brownies, and cookies are going to be my downfall in life if pizza, steak, and mashed potatoes don’t kill me first.  Creating those awesome sweet concoctions is really fun too.

First, mixing together all of the ingredients feels like being a mad scientist in her secret lab.  Or maybe a witch over her bubbling cauldron.  In short, it seems cooler than just being a girl at home on a Friday night with a sugar craving…

Second, people LOVE their supplier.  icon wink Fit in a Fun Friday   Baking   I will guarantee that anyone who shares a perfectly moist chocolate cake or a mouth-watering home-made brownie will make some friends fast.  I have started every job I’ve had by bringing a plate of chocolate chip cookies the first day.  It’s a conversation starter and everybody concentrates on my baking abilities more than the fact that I have no idea what I am doing yet.

Thirdly, it is a skill and you feel proud when everything comes together.  I made brownies for my husband and a couple of friends last week and every compliment was an ego-booster.  I know chocolate boosts dopamine levels and gives you a mood boost, but so does hearing nice things about something you created.  It’s just a good feeling.

Lastly, you will always know of something you can bring to gatherings.  Our friends and family throw so many food-related get-togethers that our grocery bill would be through the roof if I didn’t know how to bake up $3-$5 desserts that can feed a crowd.  I’ve recently added Pineapple Stuffing into my repertoire.  icon smile Fit in a Fun Friday   Baking

Yep, baking is awesome.  Just be sure not to eat a bunch of your successes if you are trying to lose weight.  icon wink Fit in a Fun Friday   Baking

Do you enjoy baking?  What’s your favorite dessert?

Improving your Personal Financial Health – How to Get Financially Better

The following is a guest post from David Hamilton (aka FPT Guy), owner and author of Financial Planning Tips – where you can find sensible information on personal finance for the average Joe or Jane.

We all could use a little improvement in terms of our financial health right?  Maybe some of us more than others.  But wherever you are in terms of your finances, it doesn’t really matter – just that fact that you want to get better and know that you can improve puts you ahead of many people.

I happen to have solid money habits from being part of a family that has managed its money quite well.  I feel I’ve been successful in terms of my personal finances: never had a problem saving my money, buying the things I wanted, going on vacations and I’ve never been in credit card debt except for once – which was planned to help me with an expensive move out to New York City.

I’ve always understood the importance of cash flow and increasing it whenever possible via promotions or switching jobs to make more.  My money personality is that of an earner and a saver.  But because I’ve been successful, it doesn’t mean that I don’t need to improve.

So where to start in improving your financial health?  If you’d like – get out your pen and paper and follow each category and assess how you are doing – what your strengths are, and where you think you can improve your financial health, and what you need to do to change it.  As we go along, I am going to break down where it is that I’m strong and where I need to improve my financial health.

Your Mindset around Money

Money doesn’t grow on trees?  Easy to come by or hard?  Do you think you even deserve to have money?  Is it the root of all evil?  Anything that you say is “true” about money, is actually just your belief about it, which in turn creates your habits.  Write down what you believe about money and notice how that’s what you make happen in terms of it.  I “believe” that belief is the main driver behind all financial habits and the difference between making things easy or difficult.

Here are my basic beliefs around money, and I’ve noted which I think are “resourceful” or “not resourceful”:

“I am intuitive and great with managing my money.” (Resourceful)

“I am great at using my credit card and never carrying a balance.” (Resourceful)

“It’s fun to look at my accounts and see all that money in them.  I feel safe and secure with there.” (Resourceful)

“I spend my money wisely, and by only what I want and need, not what others tell me to.”  (Resourceful)

“Owe as little debt as possible.” (Resourceful overall, but not resourceful in terms of assets like a home – which I’ve never owned)

“I suck at investing in the stock market and real estate, it’s not for me.” (Not resourceful)

“Hard work = money.” (Resourceful to a certain extent and gets results, but that’s in terms of trading time for money rather than thinking like an entrepreneur.  I’m shifting my mindset about working less but making more).

As I take a look here, it’s easy to see why I’ve gotten little results in terms of investing, and why I’m not making as much as I could be in terms of money.  If you believe that mindset controls fuels your habits, it can be a very powerful place to make changes.  So what were your beliefs?

Cash Flow

Are you focused on cash flow and increasing it?  It’s very important to realize that if you are at all skilled at what you do, you are probably more valuable than you think.  It shocks me how often people undervalue themselves and their talent – I did the same for years.  Perhaps you can start an internet business on the side to rake in some more cash, or even get your kids involved in it.  Not only will that help out the family, but teach them money making skills as well.  I do believe now that the best way to make money is to start your own business, but that does require quite a shift in thinking from the employee to the owner.

Budgeting & Expense Tracking

Do you have a monthly budget?  Are you tracking expenses at all?  To be honest, I wasn’t doing this until I became an entrepreneur, but then again I didn’t that I had to and was always ok.  Even then I could have probably been more diligent with my budgeting, but hey, at least I’m doing it now.  Even if you are good with intuitively managing your money like I am, I actually recommend this and am very glad I started doing it.

Credit Card Usage

Do you pay off your balances every month, or are you a “balance carrier” or perhaps deep in credit card debt?  This can be a tricky one.  If you carry balances it may be time to reform your ways and use your credit card as “electronic money” rather than credit – where you spend on your card to gain rewards and other perks, but always pay off your balances in full.  If you are deep in debt, it goes without saying that you need to get yourself on the path of settling credit card debt for good.

I actually attribute a lot of my financial success to this habit, because credit card interest and late fees are just money down the drain – and I haven’t ever carried balances – except for my move to New York City when I was 25 years old.  But as soon as I landed and I was done with moving expenses I devised a plan to balance transfer everything to 0% APR cards and had it paid off in 9 months.

Over the years I’ve had a near perfect credit score due to this practice, and to be honest it isn’t all that hard if you don’t stray from it.

Savings

Are you paying yourself every month?  Always stash cash in your savings account – an often quoted standard is 10% – and only withdraw from your checking.  This can be money saved up for vacations or special items your want to buy or projects you want done.  But weigh those carefully – do you really need them?  Depending on how adept you are at saving, a portion of this money can be used for investing or going to your children’s college funds.

Retirement Accounts

How much are you contributing to 401ks and IRAs?  Think about contributing as much as you can to these accounts.  Why? Because the restrictions & penalties should make you think twice about ever withdrawing from your accounts until retirement and that’s more money saved that will compound when invested properly.  Of course special cases do apply for withdrawals – but in general the money has to be put back.  Of course Roth accounts are even more flexible with these rules.  But I discourage withdrawal from these accounts at all until retirement age.  Another strong point of mine has been my consistency in contributing to these to their maximum

Investing

This is the number one area that I need to improve on, especially now that I work for myself.  No more 401K or matching for me, so I need to be a more active investor in the stock market.  Taking time to learn how to actually evaluate companies and funds is something that I’ve been dreading for years.  But know that I need to do it, and to learn how to decipher what companies, funds and sector will be the best investments for my portfolio and personality type.

Recap for me:

Strengths – earning, saving, budgeting, using credit cards to my advantage.

Areas to improve – active stock market investing, taking on “good debt” in the future like a house or condo.

Now it’s your turn. Feel free to comment here about any section that interests you, let’s hear from you about your money habits – what you’re good at and what you’d like to improve.

Note from Crystal:  We’re perfect and need to make zero changes…

HAHAHAHAHA!!!  That’s funny!

Seriously, I think we are good at prioritizing our spending, but we need to work on scaling back a few of our budget categories.  For example, we go over our restaurant and fast food budget a little bit most months but we shrug it off since we are doing well overall.  We need to stop shrugging.

Here’s Our New Budget for the Next Month or Two

Please also check out and comment on my staff writer post, 5 Main Money Gobblers, at Sweating the Big Stuff today.  icon smile Heres Our New Budget for the Next Month or Two

Since we’re done paying for grad school (YAY), already paid off the car using our emergency fund (double YAY), and hubby got a raise (TRIPLE YAY), I once again revamped our budget.  This one should last us a couple of months while I figure out what Mr. BFS’s take-home pay will be on a regular basis:

  • Mortgage – $900.00
  • Roth IRA – $300.00
  • Car Insurance – $115.00
  • Gasoline – $200.00
  • Electricity – $200.00
  • Water – $30.00
  • AT&T U-Verse & DSL- $115.00
  • Sprint – $85.00
  • Groceries – $300.00
  • Fast Food / Restaurants – $200.00
  • Medical – $100.00
  • Misc. Bills – $100.00
  • Joint Entertainment – $100.00
  • Hubby’s Fun Money – $125.00
  • My Fun Money – $125.00
  • Housekeeper – $120.00
  • Lawn Services – $50.00
  • Netflix for Us - $10.00
  • Netflix for Grandparents – $20.00
  • Pet Account – $100.00
  • Car and Home Account – $500.00
  • Vacation Account – $250.00
  • Property Tax Account (We’re Playing Catch-Up Until 2011) - $500
  • Emergency Fund – $255.00
  • Cash – $200.00
  • Total = $5000

That comes to $60,000 a year and we make $82,500 jointly.  Taxes, the pension, the 401k, our benefits, and the excess take-home pay that I don’t know about yet account for the other $22,500.

Unplanned expenses are taken from the appropriate target accounts. Extra money from our hobby jobs (blogging and sports officiating) is split between the Emergency Fund or mortgage (50%), the Vacation Account (25%), and our two individual Fun Money Accounts (12.5% each).

As always, I am still donating my time and both of us donate our own fun money to the charities we love to support.

What do you think? How has your budget been faring?