BFS is in the Sweet 16 at Free Money Finance!

***UPDATE:  BFS WON ROUND 3!!!
I will let you know when Round 4 starts -
If we win Round 4, Pughearts is guaranteed $100!  WOOT!***

Hi to all of the readers visiting from FMF!  Glad to see you!
Feel free to take a look around!

A quick summary of me as a personal finance blogger would be that I absolutely love blogging, connecting with everybody, and talking money.  I put a huge emphasis on prioritization and automatic savings plans since my husband and I are shooting to retire at age 52. We live on his salary as a public school librarian, save my own income from office work, and budget in fun stuff regularly too.   icon wink BFS is in the Sweet 16 at Free Money Finance!

Here are some posts that will give you some BFS flavor:

For anybody who didn’t come here from Free Money Finance, he hosts a March Money Madness contest for bloggers. Right now my post, How I Make Money Blogging, has made it into the Sweet 16 and is up as Game 3 on his site. 

I am competing for the ultimate prize of $500 for one of my favorite charities, Pughearts.

Please do me a huge favor by clicking over to FMF, typing in your vote in the FMF comment section (hopefully the word “Blogging” ), and hitting submit.   Thanks so much!

For my regular readers, I’d truly appreciate your vote too as this is a TOUGH round.
You can also see my daily posts below, thanks!!!

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Should Money Matter in Marriage?

Short answer…YES. I understand that love should have very little to do with money, but marriage to me is a life long partnership. That partnership is just easier if spouses agree on goals in life, including the monetary ones.  Money does matter in marriage.

I have heard way too many awful stories about a husband or wife hiding a huge purchase, opening secret credit cards, or hiding huge sums of debt. These sound like absolute nightmares to me.

The Reason I Dated

When I started dating, it was so I could meet my future husband. I didn’t date just to have a good time or with the idea that I was young and could just mess around. I knew that I wanted a solid marriage that could be based on honesty, sympathy, and a huge dose of initimateness, lol.  A partner that would work against our mutual goals of financial security were not options in my mind.

Our Long-Term Goals

Thankfully, Mr. BFS would never jeopardize our future by hiding spending or making purchases we can’t afford. I won’t either. Do we ever argue about money? Of course. We aren’t the same people so we do disagree on the specifics once in a while. BUT, we completely agree on our long-term needs and goals, which is why we work so well on saving together.

For example, we both want early financial independence.  Don’t you want to retire early?  We want to be able to choose our daily schedules by the time we hit 52. That means we have about 25 years to save up our target 2 million dollars between my 401(k), our Roth IRA, and our Scottrade account. We are planning on my husband’s pension being our starting point when we decide on our retirement budget and the rest being used to fill in any cracks.

Retirement is important enough for us to save 30-40% of our total take-home pay. My husband or I would be devestated if either one of did something that ruined that dream. The fact that I know that we are in it together gives me the security I need to enjoy life.

Would he leave me or would I leave him if one of us ever forgets who the heck we are and hides away $50,000 in credit card debt?  Probably. I know it is not the most romantic idea, but who wants to stay married to a liar?

Our Favorite Example

My favorite example of my ideal marriage would be my husband’s grandparents. After many conversations with his grandma, I found that arguments are normal and communication is key. They talk about everything and budget together. They even have their own small stashes (not secret) to spend at will. They are where I hope Mr. BFS and I still are in 50 years. icon smile Should Money Matter in Marriage?

You may remember this post since it was one of my staff writer posts at Sweating the Big Stuff last year.  Don’t worry, I did get permission to reprint here.

What do you think? Am I being young and naive? I have only been married for 5 years, so what do you more experienced people think?

Why I Never Want to Buy a House Again

Mr. BFS recently mentioned that he’s looking forward to a bigger house in the future.  I replied with a smile, “That’s nice.  I know.”

What I was really thinking was, “I really hope I never have to buy a house again because the whole thing sucked.”

In short, even if our house was paid off right now, I do not want to buy a house again. Here’s what I remember during 2007 when we were buying a home:

1) It was hard to convince our real estate agent that we really were staying at $130,000 or less. She also didn’t seem to understand that I really wanted “or less.” My parents actually ended up finding our current home by accident while cruising around a neighborhood we were already looking in.

2) Finding a home that fit our criteria was difficult. We are spoiled. We wanted to buy a house that wouldn’t need a lot of repairs for the first 5 years and we wanted to pay $130,000 or less. That was pretty much it but that severely narrowed our options.

3) While actually looking at homes, we found out that there is a whole bunch of things that we really dislike. I could never live on concrete floors. My husband and I really did not want to buy that would need wallpaper removed from every, single wall. We didn’t want to have to repaint every wall either.

I didn’t think we were all that picky, but some people’s tastes were so far from our own that we cringed when we walked into each room. Is it so wrong to want to avoid as much work as possible, especially in that first year after making a huge 20% down payment?

4) My husband and I do not handle stress well…and we were worse 4 years ago. I get clingy and he gets snappy, so we were just ticking each other off along the way. Picture a 23 year old husband and 24 year old wife just sniping at each other immaturely every time something didn’t go smoothly. It was awful.

5) Moving was a pain in the rear. We had lined up a company to move all of our furniture and boxes the Saturday of Memorial Day weekend, but the morning of the move rolled around and they didn’t show up! None of my calls were answered. By 11am, we knew we were in trouble.

All our stuff was packed, so we had to call my in-laws to get some numbers of other moving companies. One of those companies were kind enough to fit us in, but we ended up spending at least 6 hours twiddling our thumbs in complete boredom since we had to stick around in case they popped up.

The final price was also $100 more than we had worked out with the other company so we barely had enough cash to cover the total…I felt so bad not being able to give those guys a great tip.

6) Unpacking is my idea of torture. I do not enjoy decorating. I don’t have the proper genes or something. I’ve moved and unpacked at least 8 times in my life and have hated it each and every time.

Don’t get me wrong, I don’t regret moving into our home despite all of that. I do love our house. I adore being able to host potlucks. I love the fact that we have a small yard for our dogs. I appreciate being able to decorate as we see fit and knowing that we won’t have to pack everything up anytime soon. I just think I want to stay in our current home until my knees can’t stand the stairs anymore. icon smile Why I Never Want to Buy a House Again

You may remember this as one of my staff writer posts at Sweating the Big Stuff.  Don’t worry, I got permission to re-publish after a few months.  I’m just trying to get all of my personal posts in one place since I realized that by only having these posts at SBS, I was leaving gaps here at BFS.  These memories shape who I am.

Do your want to buy a house (again)?

How to Buy a Car – Our Personal Experience

You may remember my post, How to Sell a Car on Craigslist.  I learned how to do that that simply because we had bought a new car and the dealer offered us way too little for our old car.  This  post is about our car buying experience and the great tips on how to buy a car again in the future.

How to Buy a Car – The Beginning

It all started when my husband decided that he needed a new car in early 2008. Specifically, he wanted a small SUV that could easily handle all of his school supplies as a science teacher (this was before he became a school librarian) and sports officiating equipment at the same time. I physically cringed at the idea of owning an SUV since gas 3 years ago was reaching $4 a gallon around here!  Heck, it’s at $3.25 a gallon right now so I would have been cringing for the last 3 years!

Thankfully, he saw a Toyota Prius in our Kroger’s parking lot and was able to get a great look at its storage room in the back. He was hooked. That’s when I started looking into pricing for a new Prius.

The Toyota Prius did not cost as much as I first guessed, about $28,000, but that was only a few thousand cheaper than the small SUV’s that were on our list. I never thought that I would ever need or want to buy any car that cost more than $25,000, but Mr. BFS did need room and we do use his car for the majority of our driving. So I said nothing negative and continued looking up prices online.

How to Buy a Car – The Purchase

By the time Mr. BFS had a free evening to test drive a new Prius for the first time, I knew exactly what they were selling for ($26,000-$28,000), the Kelley Blue Book values of the new 2008 models (about $26,000), what price I would be shooting for when he decided to buy ($26,500), and the APR we could get from my old credit union (4.5%). I thought I was fully armed.

I was not prepared for the fact that the 2008 Toyota Prius had a 200 person waiting list at that point. We were just lucky that a local dealer even had one to test drive. Sadly, it was a fully loaded model that they wanted $32,000 for after all the fees. It was also the ugliest reddish brown color that I had ever seen. It was supremely icky.

Once I figured out that they wouldn’t even negotiate due to high demand, I was ready to go. The salesmen scrambled to come up with something we might be willing to buy. They lucked out and found a 2007 silver Prius in the used car lot next door.

It was awesome. It had the same design, a few extras (like a back-up camera), and was still sparkly and clean despite it’s 30,000 miles.

That was the rub.

I had not researched used cars. I had no idea what it was really worth and Mr. BFS did not want to leave without that car. Of course, we should have left at that point and come back after doing a little research, but we didn’t.

How to Buy a Car – The Negotiation

Yes, we stayed. I offered something laughably low in that high demand environment – $16,000. They countered with $26,000. I rolled my eyes and suggested they actually work with me and offered $18,000. They came down to $24,500. I said I could absolutely go no higher than $21,000 (honestly, I would have gone for $23,000). They made their “final” offer of $21,500. All of that took about 2 hours and we finally were sent to the Finance and Insurance department.

That guy was awful. He tried to sell us on a 7% interest rate and a $2400 extended warranty. The Certified Pre-Owned beauty was already well-warrantied for another 70,000 miles, but I wanted to see if the interest rate had any wiggle room. I asked how low he could go on the APR if we bought the warranty. He knocked it down to 4.1%. I then asked for him to remove the warranty from the works. When he went back to adjust the APR, I explained that I knew that the APR wasn’t actually effected by warranties and that I’d like it to stay at 4.1%.

Needless to say, we didn’t make friends with that guy, but we did leave with a great 4.1% rate at the time for a used car. icon smile How to Buy a Car – Our Personal Experience

How to Buy a Car – Results

When we finally were able to drive our “new” car home, I was dying to see how good of a deal I really made. When I frantically typed in all the relevant data into Kelley Blue Book, I was happily surprised to see that I paid $500 less than its “going rate” and a quick check-in with our credit union showed that our APR was pretty awesome too.

I felt like I won the lottery until I realized we just signed away at least $23,000 in car costs and interest rate charges. Yuck.

In the end, we used our emergency fund to pay off the Prius by mid-2010 (remember that super happy We Just Paid Off Our Car Loan post?) and ended up spending $23,400 total. It is still driving just like new and makes 50-52 miles per gallon, so I’m more than satisfied overall. My husband loves it and even said, “Cars are more fun to drive when they are affordable.”

He has no idea how many hours I put into research, lol.  This is also when I learned s few of my tips for selling on Craigslist.

How to Buy a Car – Tips for the Future

Here’s what I would keep in mind for my next car purchase:

  • Research the price, options, and APR for new AND used just to keep your options open.
  • Everything is negotiable, even car financing and warranty costs. Keep that in mind.
  • Don’t let your spouse ever say the words “Oh, I really like that one”. icon wink How to Buy a Car – Our Personal Experience
  • Sometimes luck is better than skill.  Seriously.

You may remember this post since it was one of my staff writer posts at Sweating the Big Stuff last year.  Don’t worry, I did get permission to reprint here.

Have you ever gotten lucky on a big deal? Do you have tips on any car buying experiences to share?

Could the LSA Prove to be as Popular as the ISA?

This article was written by Les Roberts, investment researcher at Moneysupermarket.com.

The ISA was introduced to the British public in 1999 and so, as a product, has had a few more years than the LSA to gain the trust of investors.

And those that viewed the LSA with a degree of skepticism should take a look a the popularity of the ISA which is the UK’s most popular investment product for the fourth year running.

The UK currently offers two tax-free savings products, the cash ISA and the stocks and shares ISA, and both offer savers the chance to make money on their investments without the tax man taking a share of the wealth.

But there are restrictions on how much money can be saved and, as of April 6th of this year, the start of the UK’s new financial year, anyone wishing to put money into a cash ISA will be able limited to a maximum of £5,340 per year. The good news is that neither the money put in nor any interest made on it can be touched by the tax man.

Alternatively, those wishing to invest their money into a stocks and shares ISA will be able to invest twice that amount and will still receive all of the capital growth or dividends gained without interference from the tax man.

Another advantage of investing in an ISA is that funds can be transferred from a cash ISA to a stocks and shares ISA without affecting the investment’s tax status or annual allowance.

In other words, if an investor reaches their cash ISA limit of £5,340 but wishes to make further investments then they can transfer this money into a stocks and shares ISA and invest a further £5,340 into that account without paying any penalties.

Furthermore, these tax-free savings can be used for anything that the investor wishes, be it a college fund or a new car.

With the LSA that was proposed in the USA in 2003 but never instated, investors could have saved up to $7,500 per year and whatever is put into this account is non tax-deductable and any returns that are earned are also tax free.

In addition, that LSA would have had no age restrictions and no conditions so anyone investing in one could have spent the money they made on anything they wished.

Another advantage of the LSA would have been that they did not have the restrictions and penalties associated with other government savings schemes, such as the IRA and 401k, and so any withdrawals that were made would have been done so without the fear of taxation or a penalty fee being imposed.

So, it has taken a little under ten years since for the ISA to become the UK’s preferred investment product.  Why hasn’t the USA followed suit?

UPDATE from Crystal:  This post was based on the article: http://www.gobankingrates.com/savings-account/what-is-a-lifetime-savings-account/  Based on that and my own research, it seems that LSA’s were proposed in the USA in 2003 but never instated.  I have changed the post to match that data.

Welcome Get Rich Slowly Readers!

Hi to all the readers visiting from Get Rich Slowly! Glad to see you!
Feel free to take a look around!

A quick summary of me as a personal finance blogger would be that I absolutely love blogging, connecting with everybody, and talking money.  I put a huge emphasis on prioritization and automatic savings plans since my husband and I are shooting to retire at age 52. We live on his salary as a public school librarian, save my own income from office work, and budget in fun stuff regularly too.   icon smile Welcome Get Rich Slowly Readers!

Here are some posts that will give you some BFS flavor:

For a quick view of my past posts, you can visit my archives or take a glance at my most popular posts from the last month or so at the top of the left sidebar.

Also, feel free to check out My Favorite Blogs in my left sidebar or visit my Yakezie Member List to see the list of bloggers that make up the fantastic blogging community that has helped me countless times along the way!

My daily posts are below. 
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Weekly Stats and Money Update #10 for 2011

Since I do plan on blogging full time by 2012, this is the year for a HUGE push. These are the new goals to keep us on the right track!

Here are my Goals for July 4th, 2011:

Here is what we are shooting for by July 4th, 2011:

Alexa – Maintain a Ranking at or around 37,500
Visits – 60,000 total visits (I started BFS on February 20th, 2010)
Feedburner Subscribers – 500
Twitter Followers – 500
MozRank – 5.5

Today’s Update

Alexa – 32,886 (THANK YOU!)
Visits – 42,593  (17,407 to go…we can do it!)
Feedburner Subscribers - 426 (74 to go)
Twitter Followers - 411 (89 to go)
MozRank – 4.99 (0.51 to go still)

As always, thank you so much for being my supporters! I could not do any of this without you and I really never forget that!!!

The Saved Quarter Challenge Update

I joined The Saved Quarter Challenge this year and am aiming to save at least $21,000 by the end of 2011! That would be a tiny bit more than 25% of our GROSS pay from our two full time jobs.

Here’s how I’ve done this week for the Saved Quarter Challenge ($21,000 Goal):

I have better updates after the 13th of every month since that is when our billing periods end, so here is where we funnelled away money this past week:

  • I started a new ING Savings account for my Blogging Income so we can use it to fully fund a 2nd Roth IRA and for padding when I do quit my full time job to blog – $2450
  • Roth IRA – $300
  • Emergency Fund / Savings – $350
  • Auto and Home Maintenance Account – $500

Total This Week: $3600

We also saved $200 to the vacation account and $200 to fun money but I’m not counting that as savings until we have some left at the end of the year. 

We can save what we do because we live off of my husband’s salary as a school librarian ($38,000 take home pay) and save most of what I make ($26,000 take home pay) and our hobby job incomes (reffing for Mr. BFS and blogging for me).

Total to date: $8230 guaranteed, $12,770 to go.

Additonal Info

I will continue posting monthly and yearly blog statistics and income updates from here on out, so stay tuned at the beginning of every month!

In case you didn’t know, Alexa traffic rankings are determined by the numbers of hits a site gets by people with the Alexa toolbar. If you want to be part of this ranking community, you can download the Alexa toolbar here. icon smile Weekly Stats and Money Update #10 for 2011

If you don’t already, you can follow me via RSS or Twitter by following those links. icon smile Weekly Stats and Money Update #10 for 2011

To learn more about the Yakezie, the blogging group that has helped me in SO many ways, check out my Yakezie page! Feel free to email me if you are a Yakezie member or challenger and don’t see yourself on the list!

If you are interested in seeing how I went from an 8 million plus Alexa rank to about 50,000 in less than 8 months, you can see My Blogging Schedule, which breaks down everything I do related to blogging. If you want to see how I brought in $6000 in less than 10 months, you can check out How I Make Money Blogging.

THANK YOU ALL FOR BEING THE BEST READERS EVER!!!