Since I still haven’t received any other Reader Profiles, I thought it was about time to get back to a Fit in a Fun Friday post, lol. I think the last one of these was in 2011…
Anyway, today’s fun suggestion is to be spontaneous! I blew off my scheduled bowling league last night (despite my head saying not to waste my $20 fee) to jump in the car with a couple of friends and head down to Galveston. That’s about 3 hours of driving round trip just to hang on a beach for a few hours that butts up against brown, Galveston water. AND IT WAS A BLAST!
Spontaneity is Needed Sometimes
Deciding to make plans at the last minute seems rebellious…like sneaky fun. It lets my brain turn off and just pretend it’s on a little vacation. That usually means that I get back to work refreshed and ready to go for a few more hours.
For example, I hang out with friends nearly every evening now. Sometimes we just talk or walk. Sometimes we board game or just work on our own projects in the same room like an at-home Starbucks trip. Or apparently, we can even decide to take a quick trip to the beach, lol. It doesn’t matter what the spontaneous idea is – it’s fun because it’s with others and helps break up work monotony.
Watch Yourself Though
The only tricky part of having fun just pop up is that you can sort of forget about your normal responsibilities if you aren’t careful. My normal week day in the last two weeks has become working from 9:30am to around 4pm, hanging out with hubby and/or friends until 11pm, and then getting back to work from 11:30pm to around 2am. That sounds like a great schedule, but I sort of forgot I need more than 8-9 hours of work time in a day.
There are options though. For example, I am writing this post while sitting on the floor of the garage of our rent house while a plumber fixes one of the copper pipes that started leaking in the laundry room. I’ve actually written two posts in about 70 minutes simple since my brain is firing away.
So from here on out, I’m going to try fitting in another hour or two each week day either earlier or while waiting for stuff to happen. I’m going to see if having fun, keeping on top of everything else, and sleeping properly is truly possible if you can find the right balance. I think I pulled it off pretty well in 2011…time to work out the details appropriately again. 🙂
Do you just spontaneously decide to do stuff? Has it ever gotten out of hand? Have you found the right balance for you?
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