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I Whine But Want to Help!

My biggest complaints in the last couple of weeks have been that I am not sleeping enough and my back aches.  Pet sitting has a little break right now and I’m catching up on sleep, which is helping my back.  Hear that?  I didn’t get enough sleep and my back aches.

My Friends

Now, at the same time:

– A friend is dealing with a lifetime illness and a current issue that made her bedridden for weeks.
– Another is dealing with a stalky ex who was abusive.
– Another is dealing with an immature and vindictive ex and an aggressive child.
– Another is dealing with a cheating spouse.
– Another is getting official with receiving back child support.
– Another is in the middle of law problems thanks to a confused father-in-law and his evil family.
– Another has been having debilitating headaches for years.
– Another has been having different medical issues that slows him down on and off.
– Another is medically depressed and probably has been for about a decade.
– Another has medical problems that doctors can’t diagnose and post-partum depression.
– Another is now finishing the raising of her 18 year old cousin even though she’s just 26 and her fiancé who’s helping with the schedule is 23.  And they are better parents than the 18 year old ever had before.  Go figure.

That list is what I could remember in less than 5 minutes.  There are more and these are close friends!  Obviously, these life issues are bigger than mine.  Yet, I think it’s okay to complain about my sleepiness and back.  I’m self-centered.  BUT, that’s okay.

Am I Self Centered? Joke

Thank You, Friends

We’re all self-centered.  And, this is odd but awesome, my friends don’t seem to mind my whining.  I’m here for them, and they are here for me.  HOW AMAZING IS THAT?!  Friends kick butt.

That said, I’m not so full of myself that I think my achy back matters as much as the list above.  In fact, I’ve had these people in my head.  Their problems are on my mind.  I want to help and I don’t know how.  The ideas that I have at first are all no-go’s.  I really want to beat the living crap out of the abusive ex.  I want to slap the back of the heads of the cheating spouse, the deadbeat dad, and the greedy family.  And I wish I had magical powers to fix all of the medical issues.  See below for my newest idea!!!

So, to all of my friends, I hope you will be okay.  I hope you know that I’m here for you.  I hope you know that I wish I had magical powers and could make things better for you.  Thank you for being my friends.

Thank You!

UPDATE 4/9/14 at 10:45am – I do know how I can help!  BFS is going to host a fundraiser once a month for a different charity each time.  I will come up with a fun way that we can all participate and I’ll match the contribution up to a certain dollar amount each time with my own fun money.  I’ll brainstorm on how to work out the details on this, but know that fundraising drives are coming and they will be fun in some way – not just money begging!  Maybe I’ll auction off my guest posting services or something…any ideas are welcome!!!

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4 comments to I Whine But Want to Help!

  • Christie

    Way Cool !

  • Christie

    Maybe you could give away a consult with someone who is having trouble getting a side gig off the ground ? Or, help organize finances ? These would have value to those that don’t have a blog. ; )

  • Just because somebody has bigger problems than you, it doesn’t mean that your problems aren’t significant or don’t matter. I always hate when friends try to compete with problems.

  • This is such a wonderful idea. Watching other people suffer definitely softens my heart and it’s a big motivation for getting out of debt. We know we can’t “save” everyone, but we want to be in a position to help people when possible!